Meie olemise paradigma kipub olema: omada – teha – olla.
“Kui mul oleks palju raha, siis ma saaks teha oma firma ja saaksin õnnelikuks.””
“Kui mul oleks hea äriidee, siis saaksin tegeleda meelepärasega ja saaksin õnnelikuks”
Siit tulevad ka vabandustest kubisevad eitavad variandid:
“Kuna mul pole piisavalt raha, siis ei saa ma teha oma firmat ja ei saagi kunagi õnnelikuks.”
“Kuna ma pole piisavalt tark, siis ei saa ma tegeleda meelepärasega ja ei saagi kunagi õnnelikuks.”
Töönarkomaani mudel on: teha-omada-olla:
“Kui ma rabelen kõvasti, siis saan palju raha ja saan äkki õnnelikuks.”
Nagu näete, on need kõik paraku tingimusliku õnne mudelid, mis ei pruugi kunagi realiseeruda või osutuvad täitudes mitte õnne toovateks. Paraku vabandusi sisaldavad need variandid lõpmatuseni.
Kuidas siis saada iseendaks ja vabaneda vabandustest? Paradigma tuleb õiget pidi pöörata : olla-teha-omada.
Olge see, kes te olete, käituge vastavalt ja te saate kõike, mida te vajate. Pange tähele, kõike, mida te vajate. Kui esmase (omada-teha-olla) variandi puhul te aktiivselt oletate, mida teil kõike õnneks või õnnelikuks saamiseks vaja on, siis teise variandi (olla-teha-omada) puhul tuleb teadmine, et te saate alati seda, mida te peate saama, siis kui te peate saama, nii nagu te peate saama.
Teie olete see allikas, kellest lähtub signaal, mida siis ligi tõmmatakse. Ka õnnelik olemine on valik, mitte ootus. Siin ja praegu valite olla õnnelik, ilma ootuse ja tingimusteta. Siin ja praegu, sellena kes te olete, sellega, mis teil on.
Nii on näiteks ka feng shuis tellimuste esitamisega läbi bagua tsoonide. Pikka aega parimas usus keskendusime tellima raha/rikkus/rahulolu tsoonilt : “Palju pappi ja ruttu”. Tundus ju, et kui tuleb palju raha, siis on mured murtud ja õnn õuel ning saab hakata elama elamisväärset elu. Tähelepanuta jäi see, et paraku sellise tellimuse esitamise puhul on tegemist saamise, mitte andmisega, aga järgekord peab olema, et kõike mida te välja annate, pange tähele – välja annate, saate te kümnekordsena tagasi. Seega tuleb keskenduda andmisele, allikana olemisele.
Mida siis meil anda on. Kõigil on midagi, jagage seda, milles te külluslik olete. Kui olete heatujuline, jagage seda teistega, tunnustage teisi, kui nad on millegagi hakkama saanud, jagage armastust.
Meie koolitajatena saame jagada kogemust ja teadmist ja kui kuulajad on rahul, siis toovad nad meile ka rahalised vahendid, millega oma vajadused katta. Kes maksab teile palka? Ikka kliendid. Millal kliendid tahavad teile palka maksta? Siis, kui nad on rahul, kui nad on midagi saanud. Müügiteoorias öeldakse, et inimene ostab siis, kui ta tahab mingit asja (teenust) rohkem, kui selle eest välja antavat raha. Seega on alati andmine esimesel kohal. Teie olete allikas, teist lähtuvad kõik signaalid, mis siis vajalikku ja olulist teie ellu tõmbavad ning vabandused kaovad.
Seega vajame meie koolitajatena rohkem kliente, kasutada iga võimalust olla auditooriumi ees, jagada seda teadmist, mis meil on, luua rahulolu kuulajates. Teha kõike seda mõnuga ja küll ka tasu tuleb.
Õigesti hakkab ka tööle feng shui põhipostulaat : Sarnane tõmbab sarnast. Te ei tõmba midagi puuduvat kuskilt ligi, vaid teie oletegi allikas, kellest kõike vajalikku ligi tõmbavad impulsid lähtuvad.
Head allikaks olemist!
Janno Seeder
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